Who buys private startup shares — and how to actually sell yours
The first question every seller asks is "who would even buy these?" There are really only four kinds of buyer. Knowing which one fits your situation is half the battle.
Part of our guide to finding a buyer for private shares.
If you hold shares in a private startup and want to turn some into cash, the honest starting point is that there's no public market and no queue of buyers. But there are, reliably, four places a buyer comes from. Work through them in order.
1. The company itself (a buyback or tender)
Some companies buy shares back, or periodically run a tender that lets holders sell a slice. It's the cleanest route when it exists — but it needs the company to have spare cash, and most small European startups don't. Worth asking; don't count on it.
2. Existing shareholders and investors
Often your first real stop. Your shareholder agreement probably gives the company or existing investors a right of first refusal (ROFR) anyway, so you'll likely have to offer them the shares first. Some will buy to consolidate their position or avoid being diluted later. You can even propose flexible terms — for example, a purchase paid in instalments with interest, rather than all cash up front.
3. The investor in your next funding round
This is the underrated one. When a company is raising, an incoming investor can buy your existing shares instead of (or alongside) new ones — it gets them exposure without creating new, dilutive shares, and it gets you paid. Selling around a funding round is often the best-timed window there is, because someone is already setting a fresh price on the company.
4. A private individual investor
When the company can't buy, the insiders pass, and there's no round imminent, the remaining buyer is a private investor who wants access to the company. Many good private companies never open a round to individuals, so a secondary is one of the few ways in — which is exactly why the right buyer is often glad to hear from you. The hard part is finding them — which is why understanding how the market works, and getting your valuation and paperwork ready, is what makes the difference.
Expect a discount — and be honest
Whichever buyer you find, a private, minority, all-cash sale happens at a discount to the headline valuation — commonly a meaningful one, and steeper when the company is early or struggling. That's normal (more in what discount is fair). And sell honestly: if there are material problems, a buyer is entitled to know. A clean, transparent sale is the one that actually closes — and the one that doesn't come back to bite you.
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General, independent references on how private-company shares and options work. We're not affiliated with any of them.
- Carta — cap tables, secondaries and valuation explainers
- Cooley GO — startup legal explainers, including rights of first refusal
- Forge Global and EquityZen — secondary marketplaces (larger, later-stage deals)
- Ledgy and Index Ventures OptionPlan — European equity & ESOP references
General information only — not financial, tax or legal advice. Every situation is different; check your own share and option agreements and take professional advice before selling. PrivateTechShares is an education and tools service: it is not a broker or marketplace, does not introduce buyers and sellers, does not hold funds, and does not execute or advise on transactions.